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A first kiss can say an awful lot about you and the fate of your
budding romance. Use these kissing techniques to make it a kiss they
will never forget.
The one thing that can really make or break your chances with someone
new is the first kiss. Even though it may seem really superficial, many
people decide in that moment if they want to continue things with you
Personally, I take the first kiss into a lot of consideration. If the
first kiss is just off and doesn’t create some sort of spark, I might
not want to continue things with that person. For me, that physical
connection has to work in order to really draw me in.
However, even if you don’t want to have a relationship with the
person you’re looking to kiss and just want to give them the best kiss
of their life, these tips will definitely help you out.
The best kissing techniques to leave them weak in the knees
Many people look at those kisses in the movies and think, “Why can’t I
be kissed like that?” However, those kisses are calculated, planned,
and even choreographed to look amazing and desirable. Wouldn’t it feel
great to give someone a kiss that will make even the best on-screen
smooch seem lame?
I can remember some of the best kisses I have ever gotten from
someone. They made my heart race, my knees weak, and definitely left me
wanting a lot more. Those kisses all have these 15 things in common.
Master these techniques and you’ll be dolling out heartbeat-skipping
kisses in no time. [Read: 12 foolproof kissing tips for that picture perfect smooch]
#1 Make sure the kiss is wanted. Gauge the other
person’s reaction to your proximity throughout the evening. If they shy
away when you get closer, maybe you should reconsider going in for the
kiss. If you’re finding that they’re moving closer and closer and even
initiating some contact between the two of you, you’re probably safe.
#2 Pick the right time and place. Timing is almost
as important as the kiss itself. If you mess up the timing, things can
get awkward really quickly. The best time to lean in and smooch is when
the two of you have naturally drawn closer together. This is usually
toward the end of the date/night when you are both feeling comfortable
around each other.
#3 Move slowly. Too drastic of a move makes it hard
to gauge their reaction and makes it difficult for you to change
something if it’s not appealing to them. When you move in for the kiss,
do so at a slow *but not too slow* pace. Easing your way into it builds
the anticipation, and that’s a huge factor when it comes to making it a
heartbeat-skipping kiss. [Read: How to get a guy to kiss you when you want him to]
#4 Start softly. When your lips finally touch, don’t
shove your face as hard as you can against theirs. Very gently and
softly touch your lips to theirs. The softness will create a tenderness
that will be unmatched. They will be asking *almost begging* for more.
#5 Work up to it. By this, I mean put the idea in
their head early on and work up to the kiss. It’s kind of like
foreshadowing, but for real life. Initiate physical contact *innocently*
throughout the night. Get closer to them as the night goes on. Set
yourself up to give them that amazing kiss.
#6 Hand placement is key. When you’re finally ready
to move into the kiss, you’ll need somewhere to put your hands. It’s
always awkward kissing someone without touching them in any other way.
It reminds me of two little kids planting their first kiss on someone –
sad and uncomfortable.
When you go in for the kiss, put one or both hands on the sides of
their face. If you only use one hand to grab their face, use the other
to grab them by the waist and pull them in gently so they’re that much
closer to you. [Read: How to kiss a girl for the first time and not screw up]
#7 Be aware of body language. Pay attention to their
body language. If they’re pulling away, crossing their arms, or seem
like they’re keeping their distance, the kiss might have to wait.
However, if they lean in and accept your kiss, gauge if they want more.
If they’re still lingering after you’ve given that first
heartbeat-skipping kiss, lean in for another and carry it on so it’s a
little bit longer of a kiss. Only this time, make it a little more
urgent and needy. Body language can tell you a lot about whether or not
you’re doing a great job. It will lead to that amazing, unforgettable
kiss. [Read: 15 secrets to make your first kiss really memorable]
#8 Keep your eyes CLOSED. Just keep them closed.
Don’t open your eyes unless your lips are not touching each other’s. It
makes things awkward and uncomfortable if you catch them looking at you,
too. It can kind of ruin the moment.
#9 Use a breath mint, please. Bad breath = horrible
kiss. When all someone can pay attention to is how bad your breath is,
it takes away from the rest of the amazing things you’re putting into
your kiss to make it incredible. Just chew a mint or some gum shortly
before the end of your date.
#10 Make your lips soft, but not slobbery. Nobody
wants to kiss dry, cracked lips. They’re very noticeable and
uncomfortable. Keep your lips plumped and soft with some chapstick
throughout the night/day. Do NOT “moisturize” your lips by licking them.
This just makes them wet and gives them a slobbery quality – not good.
#11 Keep your lips slightly parted. When you kiss
someone, closed lips make it impossible to mold your lips with theirs.
However, lips that are too open are just a gateway for slobber and too
much tongue. Keep your lips slightly parted, just enough so you can mold
your lips to theirs.
#12 Don’t use tongue. At least not at first. Tongue
should be something that is initiated by the other person. Tongue comes
after your initial kiss because it’s amazing. Throwing in some tongue
too early can be awkward and uncomfortable for the other person. What if
they don’t want your tongue in their mouth just yet? Skip the tongue if
you want to give them a heartbeat-skipping kiss. [Read: 11 signs of a bad kisser and 15 foolproof remedies]
#13 Keep it brief. Don’t drag it out so long. A